Social help needed, time constraint!!?

Have some more confidence in yourself! People respect confidence and respond to it quite well. As hard as it may be, be confident when speaking to them- as if you don't care if you'll get turned down or not. Secretly EVERYONE your age feels the same way inside- nervous, unworthy, seperated... As long as you're nice and probably even a little non-chalaunt, it should work out ok. Don't sound desperate... I've made that mistake lol i tell my oldest daughter everyday that the best thing she can do to feel less shy is to pretend to be confident... After awhile of pretending, you're no longer pretending anymore, you just are :) hope i helped!