Is your boyfriend always making crap up?

If you have argued a lot in the past, then guys especially become very used to it and so when you do get in an argument I think they just remember all of the other times you have gotten angry with them....and they go into "guy mode" and think you're totally against them and think you're always getting on to them. In other words a week of not getting into a fight doesn't erase a lot of fighting in the past. You jus have to be very very careful with that, it will ruin a relationship. Here's a trick anytime that you're about to get onto him or get mad at him for something (that's not really serious) stop yourself and just be really clam and let it go....it will become a habbit for you eventually and it will really help a relationship...worked for me, good luck!